In 2019, on the age of 26, Ghafari grew to become Afghanistan’s youngest feminine mayor within the conservative metropolis of Maidan Shar. She confronted fixed harassment, threats and common protests: mobs of offended males demonstrated outdoors her workplace, holding sticks and throwing stones.
Her father, a senior member of the Afghan army, was assassinated by gunmen in 2020. Ghafari believes the Taliban was accountable. (The Taliban haven’t publicly commented).
After Taliban forces captured the capital Kabul on August 15 final yr, Ghafari believed different members of his household have been additionally in grave hazard.
After just a few days Ghafri fled the nation along with her household. She hid within the footwell of a automobile on her approach to Kabul airport whereas passing by way of Taliban posts.
Now residing in Germany, she displays on what felt like an everlasting residence visitor in a brand new nation – a yr after her homeland was taken over by the Taliban.
The views expressed on this commentary are his personal.
CNN: Final yr this time the Taliban have been on the verge of taking up Afghanistan – at what time did you determine to depart and the way did you do it?
Ghaffari: I by no means determined to depart my nation. What occurred to me was only a matter of time – and my household was immediately due to it. I had quite a lot of alternatives to depart earlier than August 15, 2021, however once I left, it was to make sure the security of my household.
I did not wish to lose some other member of my household due to my work and choices. It was sufficient to hold my father’s coffin on my shoulders and nonetheless is. I could not take anybody else’s.
I got here to Germany with my complete household on twenty second August 2021. It was essentially the most terrifying expertise of my life. Leaving my nation was tougher than shedding my father.
I used to be by no means afraid of dying – I am positive individuals who observe my story know I used to be already working my approach to dying – so it was by no means my choice. However my household has a proper to stay in peace once they don’t have anything to do with my work.
CNN: How did you first get into politics in Afghanistan? What function did your loved ones play in influencing you to take action?
Ghaffari: I’ve seen the discrimination of Afghan society in direction of ladies from a younger age. After I grew up, I attempted to search out the foundation of the issue. Then I noticed that each one these issues within the life of ladies don’t have anything to do with my tradition, custom and faith.
No matter is occurring to the ladies of this nation is due to poor insurance policies of choice makers and governments – not solely inside the nation however globally.
This was the second once I determined to be a call maker, to be a change maker and to work for the betterment of ladies’s lives. And this choice took me down the trail the world calls “politics” – whereas for me it was all the time a accountability to my folks, and particularly to the ladies of my nation.
I’m doing so with respect, honesty and religion within the energy of voice of the brand new technology of my nation.
All through this journey, my household – from my father to my fiancé – have all performed an excellent function. He has all the time inspired me to combat for what I consider in. Generally they’re the explanation for what I’m doing.
CNN: What welcome have you ever obtained in Germany?
Ghaffari: My life in Germany is sort of a visitor residing in a guesthouse! I say it this fashion as a result of whereas the folks and the federal government have been so good in welcoming me and my household, I nonetheless do not feel at residence right here.
I don’t belong to this nation and this isn’t my residence. Right here I’ve been busy writing my memoir – the story of three completely different generations of ladies from Afghanistan, my grandparents, mother and father and mine.
I’m additionally remotely managing my NGO’s heart situated in Kabul – there are over 10 ladies working within the heart, which supplies academic and vocational coaching in addition to healthcare for widowed ladies. I began by promoting all my jewellery, serving to pals, and donating some.
I journey round to boost consciousness, attending occasions as a visitor speaker to speak about Afghanistan. So largely right here I am touring, most likely as a result of I do not wish to discover the larger mess of my life not having a house in Afghanistan.
CNN: You went to Afghanistan in February – why and what did you get?
Ghaffari: On February 24, the identical day that the conflict in Ukraine started, I made a decision to return to Afghanistan, to pay attention there.
After we speak about Afghanistan proper now, it’s all the time about politics, authorities, Taliban. This isn’t the voice of odd folks – wives, widows – nobody listens to them.
There must be a bridge between the native folks and the worldwide group — and if I can assist construct that bridge with my title and status, I need to strive it.
It was by no means for me to depart Afghanistan. Possibly right this moment or tomorrow I’ll die. However dying for a simply trigger has an honorable place in historical past.
I left for my household. If I can provide my siblings an opportunity to stay a distinct life, I need to.
After I went round Kabul, I noticed folks standing on the facet of the street promoting their home items. Ladies weren’t allowed into the places of work, however have been solely allowed to beg in entrance of the bakery for a single piece of bread.
I’ve no illusions in regards to the Taliban, however I additionally know that they may now be in energy in Afghanistan for just a few years to return. The media has targeted totally on the Taliban, and the way they may govern, however I’m within the folks and I consider that we should always construct, reasonably than break, the bridge between the folks of Afghanistan and the world.
CNN: What do women and girls in Afghanistan want most proper now?
Ghaffari: In a single sentence: They want enough meals, schooling, liberty and equality in response to their human rights.
CNN: What ought to America (and the worldwide group) do? What’s the method ahead?
Ghaffari: No matter occurred in Afghanistan, it got here to us by way of worldwide powers – this deal America was doing with the Taliban, bringing them again to energy.
in 2001, once they [the US and allies] Afghanistan got here, it was by no means meant to alter for the folks; It was for his personal causes — and he left Afghanistan for his personal causes. So I can not anticipate him to behave in a different way now.
Now with the conflict in Ukraine, the worldwide group has forgotten different conflict zones – Afghanistan, Syria, the Palestinian territories and lots of extra. And that is actually scary.